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What You Should Know Before Filing a Divorce

Clearly, filing for divorce is a major life decision. First and foremost, become certain you want to file for divorce before you file for a divorce. Once filed, a divorce polarizes things quickly and it is rarely a step you can simply take back. Have a plan before you file. Know where you intend to live, how you intend to live, and with whom you believe your children should live primarily:

  • Interview attorneys. your divorce attorney is going to lead you through one of the most difficult times in your life, so it is worth doing your research and ensuring that you have an experienced attorney, whose temperament is consistent with your tolerance for conflict, time, and budget. The heat will increase in these areas, so ensure your attorney is someone you can trust in difficult times.
  • Gather financial documents. You do not have to organize them yet but scan in and save documents that show the nature of the marital estate. Although there are mechanisms for us to gain access to documents within the litigation process, their availability without litigation can save time and money.
  • Think long and hard about your children. Their interest should be primary. This is going to be a life-changing event for them and whether you or they realize it, they are depending on you to help make the transition for them as smooth as possible. What is your plan concerning you children once the divorce is filed? And I mean the day of as well. Talk with your family and attorney to ensure the children are cared for.
  • Ensure you are caring for yourself. Prepare your support system, whatever that means for you. Have a financial plan. And, be prepared for surprises. A divorce can be complicated and trying. So, most importantly, do not do it alone. And lastly, if it is time, do not delay.

The Difference Between Separate Property & Community Property

A significant portion of the divorce process will be dedicated towards dividing the property of the marital estate. Texas is a community property state. What that means is, the court first presumes that all the property belongs to the community, that is by both spouses. It is incorrect to assume that the marital state will be divided 50-50, but rather, courts are required to make a “just and right division” of the marital assets. What this means is that the court has discretion to make decisions that can be based upon a few factors:

  • Before the court orders a division of the marital estate, the judge will first assume that all property is community property. It is then the burden of an individual spouse to establish that specific property is not community property but rather, as we say their separate property. Once an item is determined to be separate property, that item is no longer considered amongst the community property that will be divided.
  • To establish property as being separate property, a spouse must show through clear and convincing evidence that the character of that property is separate. The standard of clear and convincing is heightened over the preponderance of the evidence standard, which means that the evidence used to establish the separate character of a property must be “more probable to be true than not” and not merely that trier of fact has a firm belief or conviction in its factuality. Compare that burden of proof to a preponderance of evidence standard, which states that our version of facts must merely be more likely than not to be the correct version of facts. Nevertheless, there are general guidelines that we can depend upon:
  • It will be a spouse’s separate property if it was owned or acquired by a spouse before the marriage and it will be a spouse’s separate property if it was acquired by that spouse during the marriage as either a gift or inheritance. Or it will be a spouse a separate property if it was acquired during marriage but with separate property funds.

The date by which a spouse acquires the property is key. With few exceptions, anything acquired before the marriage will be considered separate property and everything acquired during the marriage will be considered community property, except for a gift or inheritance.

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